WHAT IT MEANS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH AN ENTREPRENEUR!!!
Dating an entrepreneur later alone “falling in love with them”, is a real test of faith. Entrepreneurs are easily distracted, have unpredictable moods and are normally if not all times spiritually and emotionally busy. You must be ready to be a “side bae” because you are going to be competing for attention with someone who already has his attention elsewhere.
Let me share a short little story,
HOW WE MET
“I was out on a weekend trip treating my broken heart when I met the “father of my son”
He was so full of ideas, so imaginative so soft spoken, with a high integrity. If I wasn’t broken, I’m sure, I would call love on first sight. So I found in him best company that entire time. We were very different people who shared a lot in a short time. We had a few beers and before I knew it, we got intimate. This went on for quite some time before I realised I had fallen for him.
Well, it was never easy in the start. To cut the long story short, it was worth it because this taught me a lot i never would have known.
This may not be your story, maybe he approached you in a beach, or you met in a church but the rules don’t change, if he’s still an entrepreneur. Here is what you should prepare for before you fall hard in love with an entrepreneur.
· Make sure you love yourself enough to finally admit to your Love for him. Entrepreneurs have a way of making themselves subconsciously difficult to love or very busy for love something that they believe works in their favor. When you find one, be sure to understand your true feelings.
· Be self-dependent. Being with an entrepreneur requires you to be an independent and stable individual with a positive mind to believe in the unthinkable. Have the ability to take care of your own feelings as well.
· Have several things to keep you busy ie your own work so that you don’t get to feel bored or lonely at any time. You must be a strong fearless being to survive in this relationship and be happy.
· Have your own life going and be able to really function with flexibility when the need comes.
I have less to share because my learning continues. But with this, you can choose to happily live with your partner or forever be buried to your own emotions.
NB: This I have shared is based on my true experience and my own mind. Feel free to share your views and experiences too. Thank you.
LISA BRIGHTON
FREELANCER
